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How to use a male masturbator (and keep it clean)

Warming, lube, technique and cleaning — everything men need to know to get the most from a masturbator or stroker.

A good male masturbator feels far better than your hand — if you use it right. Here's how.

Choose the right type

  • Manual sleeves and strokers — affordable, simple, no charging.
  • Masturbator cups — sleeve inside a hard case with adjustable suction.
  • Vibrating masturbators — add vibration, sometimes hands-free.

Step by step

  • Warm it: run warm (not hot) water over the sleeve for a few seconds.
  • Lube it: add plenty of water-based lube inside and on yourself. Not enough lube is the most common mistake.
  • Go slow: let the inner texture do the work before speeding up.
  • Adjust suction: on cups, loosening or tightening the end cap changes the feel.
  • Try edging: slow down or stop before climax to practise control.

Cleaning — don't skip this

  • Rinse with warm water straight after use.
  • Turn the sleeve inside out if the design allows, or flush water through it.
  • Use a toy cleaner or mild unscented soap — avoid harsh detergents.
  • Air-dry completely (stand it upright or on a drying rod) before storing.
  • A light dusting of cornstarch keeps TPE soft and non-sticky.

Which lube?

Water-based only. Silicone- and oil-based lubes can damage TPE sleeves. Browse all sex toys for men.